INTERNATIONAL MEN'S DAY

While existing in this world of 21st century where the female rights and feminism are the burning issues everywhere whether it's social media or group discussion or mass media etc. 

And also to encourage females we usually started celebrating women's day, daughters day , Mother's day  and what not .It's a good thing I'm not criticising it. 

But the question is if we relate it to present scenario so what we are talking about it's EQUALITY , right? Of course equal rights for women , I totally appreciate But something is lagging behind , that is Rights of Men like they also deserve to have their special day like Son day ,Men Day etc. But  what we are doing we neglect them or we even don't know or also can say dont want to know much about that these days also exist , it isn't fair at all!

So this blog is totally dedicated by me to every men who made my life special that is My Father , My brother , My best friend , and last but not the least My Mr. Right.

Every person is born with the combination of embellishment and flaws . We all made our mindset like we always highlighted the flaws of Men .So now it's time to put a light upon there adornments. 

He Is Direct

Many men believe that if they constantly have this “whatever” attitude, women will suddenly fall in love with them. This is complete bogus, would you like to spend time with a guy that dodges direct questions and moves his shoulders instead of giving an answer? A great guy should look straight into your eyes when he is talking to you, he needs to look and seem genuinely interested in what you have to say. He must have good diction whilst engaging in a conversation with an active attitude.

He Is A Gentleman

A great guy needs to be polite, respectful, considerate and attentive to a woman’s needs. This also includes the classic gentleman behavior such as pulling a woman’s chair, walking on the car side of the street, taking her coat, etc. I personally believe that if all men were gentlemen, we would live in a better world. Today, things are not like that, making the guys that have this quality stand out. Also, great guys never cross the line of being inappropriate.

He Has Integrity

Having integrity is another very important characteristic that makes a great man. This means he will stay true to his word and true to himself. If he tells you that he is going to do something, he will do it. I believe that integrity and ambition are enough to convince you that this man will eventually be financially sound, even if he isn’t.

He Is Faithful

Faithfulness may be one of the most important characteristics when it comes to great men. Although you can never know for sure if this is the case or not, if you know he’s been a cheater, it’s best to stay away from him.

On a different note…a recent study revealed that around 60% of men cheat at least once in their lives so the only thing you can do to make sure he won’t do it in the future is to try and keep him sexually satisfied. Men don’t cheat because they don’t feel loved anymore, they cheat because they need sex. Some men need to sleep with other women (and if you get one of these guys, you can’t do much) while others cheat because the sex is gone in the relationship. Keeping a healthy sexual relationship is the best thing you can do to keep your man faithful.

He Is Mature

Being mature means a man is able to care of himself and he approaches problems in a calm and collected manner. He understands the importance of being a man, being independent and he values what he has. A mature guy doesn’t have to be rich, but needs to know how to handle his money. It’s true that men mature later in life, but I’m sure you had at least one “childish” guy that even though he’s past his 30s still thinks he’s in high school. A mature man knows the time has come to grow up and be an adult.

It’s easy to tell if a guy is mature by the way he lives his life. Ideally he should live by himself but some might still stay with a roommate. He should under no circumstances live with his parents. I’ve been living by myself since the age of 19 and laugh at when I realize just how many of my friends (over 25) still live with their parents.

Also, a mature man will be able to carry himself in a public setting in a respectable manner and understands his adult role. A good man must be mature enough to care for himself and take care of all of his needs on his own.

He Is Self-Confident

A good man will be confident in himself and who he is. This is an important characteristic in a good man because when they are self-confident, they are less likely to change who they are and to stay true to themselves. A man with self-confidence will not be deterred from what he believes to be true and will not be easily pressured into doing things that he does not believe in.

Self-confidence makes a man happy and fun to be around because he will not be constantly questioning himself or others around him.

You will know if a man has self-confidence by how he sees himself because he will have a distinctive set of goals that he has set for himself. He will believe that he is worthy of good things and he will set out to find them. This self-confidence will show through because he will not second guess himself and when he makes decisions, he will be more likely to stick to the decision that he made. Self-confident men are good to be around because they're strong and protective and are able to take care of not just themselves, but those around them. 

So if u have been looking for ur Mr Right then may be this blog will help at least can direct u the right path where you have to walk. 💓